Young Adult and Layman

by Becky Eldredge

Ignatius's conversionOne of my greatest joys in life is journeying with those in their 20s and 30s in my work with Charis Ministries, and even more specifically, sharing with them the gifts and joys of Ignatian spirituality. At the beginning of every Charis retreat, we take the time to share St. Ignatius’s story. I am always amazed at how much his story speaks to the young adults and how much they find encouragement and inspiration in Ignatius’s story.

To begin with, Ignatius’s conversion happened when he was a young adult and a layman. Instantly, this opens up the reality that we are invited, as Ignatius was, into a relationship with God right now as we are in our 20s and 30s. His conversion story did not happen after years of theological training or years of religious education; rather, it happened in the prime of his military career. What does that say to young adults? God wants us now, and if Ignatius could make the radical change as a young adult to follow Christ, then we can also right now. Caitlin, a 22-year-old college student, captures this reality when she says:

What inspires me the most about Ignatius is the humanness of his story. The humanness and the humility that his conversion story ends with are inspiring. It seems that if he can overcome the life he was living to find Christ, our journey can’t be that far.

The question that Ignatius’s story invites all of us, not just young adults, to consider is, “Am I aware of the depth of God’s desire for a relationship with me right now?”

Becky Eldredge is the Product Development and Training Coordinator for Charis Ministries, a Jesuit ministry for those in their 20s and 30s. She holds Bachelors and Masters Degrees in Education from Louisiana State University and a Masters in Pastoral Studies from Loyola University New Orleans. She has her Certificate in Spiritual Direction from Spring Hill College. Becky has been involved in ministry for 15 years, with the majority of her work in retreat ministry and adult faith formation. While ministry is one of her passions, her greatest joy is sharing life with her husband, Chris, and her children, Brady and Abby.

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November 23, 2011

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Lynda November 23, 2011 at 1:48 pm

Becky, the question that you pose “Am I aware of the depth of God’s desire for a relationship with me right now?” is so challenging. It is easier to recognize that I need and desire God but absolutely amazing to imagine that God desires me. Thanks for this thought-provoking question.

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Robin November 23, 2011 at 2:07 pm

My experience as well! I teach a section of Intro to Religion at a Jesuit university and this past fall, following the lead of a colleague, I gave the first week of class over to a study of Ignatian spirituality and principles of Jesuit education. The students were captivated by Ignatius’ story and inspired by the tradition in which they (many of them, unwittingly) had become immersed.

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Walt November 26, 2011 at 3:22 pm

I am a father of teens and young adults. Are you aware of any video or audio resources that (accurately) relate the conversion story of St Ignatius? Perhaps a taped presentation on DVD, CD or mp3? I’d appreciate your recommendations.

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Tim Muldoon January 12, 2012 at 4:42 am

Walt, Stephanie Russell of Marquette University does a short video here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r14Y_eRrHLg.

There’s also Loyola Productions’ short piece here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVujbSBB4tk

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