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Gratitude Leads to Generosity

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When we develop an outlook of gratitude, we train ourselves to perceive the world in terms of abundance rather than scarcity. I am grateful for the few moments of rest I had today between appointments. I could just as easily be resentful about the rest I could not have because today was a workday, and I had to get out of bed and get busy. Which way will I see my day?

Do I perceive myself with gratitude? Do I give thanks for my experiences and the gifts and abilities that have grown because of those experiences? Or do I hunger after the experiences of other people, disappointed at what has not happened to me?

Gratitude is a response to my belief that my life is enough. It’s not perfect, and it’s not finished, but it is good and worthy of my thanksgiving. My life has potential. My life contains all kinds of gifts. What if I don’t have the gifts that this other person has? Will I obsess over that? Or will I simply rejoice with her?

It’s not difficult to see how gratitude leads to generosity. If life is abundance and not scarcity, then I can afford to be generous to others. If there is enough success in the universe for every person to experience a bit of it, then I can be free to help others succeed rather than focus only on my own seeking for success.

If I believe that each person is made in the Divine image, then I can worry less about how much my image matches someone else’s. I can enjoy the beauty of others without being envious.

If I believe that God continues to create my life, day by day, and continues to give graces with lavish love, then I can “afford” to accompany other people in the creation of their lives. I can share in their happiness when they receive gifts and graces.

Gratitude and generosity coexist within us. We cannot nurture one without building up the other. Each quality shapes our mindset about and our posture toward being in this world. Resentment and selfishness grow in an environment of fear, unfreedom, and the perception that there is not enough—of anything—for everyone. Gratitude and generosity grow in an environment of faith and freedom. These virtues are honest responses to a world that brims over with God’s love for us.

Photo by Remi Yuan on Unsplash.

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Vinita Hampton Wright
Vinita Hampton Wrighthttp://www.loyolapress.com/authors/vinita-hampton-wright
Vinita Hampton Wright edited books for 32 years, retiring in 2021. She has written various fiction and non-fiction books, including the novel Dwelling Places and spirituality books Days of Deepening Friendship, The Art of Spiritual Writing, Small Simple Ways: An Ignatian Daybook for Healthy Spiritual Living, and, most recently, Set the World on Fire: A 4-Week Personal Retreat with the Female Doctors of the Church. Vinita is a spiritual director and continues to facilitate retreats and write fiction and nonfiction. She lives with her husband, two dogs, and a cat in Springdale, Arkansas.


  1. What a wonderful word “If I believe that each person is made in the Divine image, then I can worry less about how much my image matches someone else’s. I can enjoy the beauty of others without being envious.”
    This is so true especially as I get older, this very topic resonates on what I am trying to teach my younger Co-Workers and friends.
    Seeing Gods gifts in others allows the gifts that God has provided us as an individual to shine.

    Marcel has said it correctly, Another Gem!

  2. I’m grateful for writers like Vinita who inspire us to be grateful for our very own lives. I especially like thinking about how much I have (abundance) as a way to generosity. Now I just need to figure out how to feel that I have an abundance of time! 🙂

  3. Oh my, do I ever need this!
    My dearest friend and I both retired a few years ago. In that short time she has become involved in some wonderful ministries and her life is rich and full. Meanwhile, I have had unexpected medical crises that have curtailed me so much. We have known and encouraged each other for decades. I am so excited for her but so upset to have been experiencing envy when I’m with her.
    Vinita: each word of yours went straight to my heart. i know about gratitude and generosity and try to practice those each day. But now i see new places that need God’s Light.
    Thank you thank you.


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