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My Ministry of Spiritual Direction

In the Spiritual Exercises, St. Ignatius invites us to consider the Trinity gazing down upon the Earth. They notice us, our world, our joys, our sorrows, our hope, and our tears. They see the brokenness and the goodness of the world. They decide that God will be made flesh and encounter us in human form. This is the Incarnation—Jesus entering our life world and becoming flesh.

Jesus still enters our life world today.

As a spiritual director, I witness this in my encounters with those seeking spiritual guidance. Spiritual direction is a space and place to unpack and notice, through conversations with a prayerful companion, a personal encounter with Jesus, who notices each of us, cares for us, and saves us. The very act of holy listening and sharing that occurs within spiritual direction sessions is an experience of Jesus entering our life world.

People meet with a spiritual director for many reasons. Perhaps they want to grow in their relationship with God and are seeking guidance as to how to start their prayer lives or how to take their prayer lives deeper. Or maybe they are trying to discern an invitation from God. Or they are in the middle of a major transition or crisis of faith. No matter what drew them to spiritual direction, our conversations always lead back to the one who drew the person to meet with me in the first place—the Holy Spirit.

With the help of the Holy Spirit, the spiritual director and the one seeking guidance listen to the person’s story and notice the encounter with Jesus in the person’s life, and we discern:

How is the encounter with Jesus transforming the person? In light of this transformation, what is Jesus’ invitation?

My personal encounter with Jesus continues to transform me and call me to action. My ministry of spiritual direction was birthed from Jesus’ ongoing work in my life. It is a gift I thank God for often, because this ministry allows me to be a witness of the Incarnation that St. Ignatius invites us to pray with in the Spiritual Exercises—Jesus entering our world and encountering and transforming people.

We’re in the last few days of 31 Days with St. Ignatius, but there’s still plenty of inspiration to be found. Today, read Prayer Brings God into the Messy Rooms.

Becky Eldredge
Becky Eldredge
Becky Eldredge is a writer and spiritual director in Baton Rouge, LA. The author of Busy Lives & Restless Souls and The Inner Chapel, Becky holds Bachelors and Masters Degrees in Education from Louisiana State University and a Masters in Pastoral Studies from Loyola University New Orleans. She has her Certificate in Spiritual Direction from Spring Hill College. Becky has been involved in ministry for more than 15 years, with the majority of her work in retreat ministry and adult faith formation. While ministry is one of her passions, her greatest joy is sharing life with her husband, Chris, and her children, Brady, Abby, and Mary.


  1. The role of a spiritual director is to really let the Lord into the process and al we need to do is to be open to the Lord’s voice working in and through ourselves and our directee. Silence is truly golden. We do need to take quiet moments and not be filling in the silences. It is truly a beautyiful ministry in which we do not take over. Joan cfcJ


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