Forgiveness, Transformation, and Mercy

What have I done for Christ? What am I doing for Christ? What ought I do for Christ?

Mercy seems to be a recurring theme in my prayer. But what is mercy really? What does it mean when we say God is merciful? How am I called to be merciful? I am no theologian, but I think there are two words that describe what God’s mercy means—forgiveness and transformation.

Forgiveness: God is a forgiving God. God’s love for us is unconditional and the very foundation upon which we are forgiven. No matter what we have done or how long we have been away, God is going to welcome us back with loving, open arms. As we feel sorry for our sins and acknowledge our sinfulness, we return to God time and time again. In doing so, we are making a decision to allow a radical change in us.

Transformation: God’s forgiveness and love for us are not just for us to receive a warm, fuzzy feeling and a clean slate. God invites us to be transformed by being forgiven. God, then, gives us a task: not just to avoid evil, but to work to overcome evil by doing good.

The idea of mercy is seen in the First Week of the Spiritual Exercises. We are invited to meditate on our sins, and we pray for the grace to feel sorrow for our sins. We are looking at our sins, however, through the lens of God’s love for us. As we ask for forgiveness for our sins, we are invited to consider three questions in prayer:

What have I done for Christ? What am I doing for Christ? What ought I do for Christ?

Through God’s mercy we are welcomed and loved, forgiven and transformed. As the questions from the Exercises show, though, God’s mercy requires action on our part. For us to live out our call to be merciful, we must take up the tasks God asks of us to help bring about transformation in others. How are we welcoming others? Loving others? Forgiving others? Through prayer we come to know how and where God is inviting us to take up these tasks of mercy.


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Becky Eldredge
Becky Eldredge is a writer and spiritual director in Baton Rouge, LA. The author of Busy Lives & Restless Souls and The Inner Chapel, Becky holds Bachelors and Masters Degrees in Education from Louisiana State University and a Masters in Pastoral Studies from Loyola University New Orleans. She has her Certificate in Spiritual Direction from Spring Hill College. Becky has been involved in ministry for more than 15 years, with the majority of her work in retreat ministry and adult faith formation. While ministry is one of her passions, her greatest joy is sharing life with her husband, Chris, and her children, Brady, Abby, and Mary.


  1. I felt really blessed to come across this article on the day that I did. After reading it, I felt an extraordinary weight lift off my shoulders, a freedom, a joy and deep peace. I have read it again a number of times sibce and hope to return to it again.Thank you. I really appreciate it.

  2. Thank you very much Becky for your spiritual and pastoral charity in sharing with us about the power of forgiveness during this graceful moment of lent.
    I am really nourished by this daily reflections from Loyola Press. I am seminarian pursuing a masters degree in Sacred Liturgy at the catholic university of eastern Africa, Nairobi-Kenya.

  3. thank you forgiveness is missing in our world my x and I are done I made mistakes I hurt my x really bad. 14 years of love morals values we passed down to our 3 young lady’s we always put God first. people always forget the good,to quick to judge and focus on the bad even if it was that one thing. pray for us. that She may see love we once had, and forgive not 7 times but 7 hundred times.I have admitted my fourths and getting help from church and support groups.cancer scared me and I fell into deep a depression.bills and money stressed us both out. thank you so much support on your site.


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