God in My Grandchildren

lemonade - image by Jill Wellington from Pixabay

Editor’s note: Throughout July, we’re celebrating 31 Days with St. Ignatiusa month-long celebration of Ignatian spirituality. In addition to the calendar of Ignatian articles found here, posts on dotMagis this month will explore ways of Experiencing God in the OrdinaryThe inspiration for our theme is the new book by William A. Barry, SJ.

The Sticker

A sticker is usually a very ordinary thing. But not this one. It’s heart-shaped, which is appropriate, because the three-year-old who gave it to me offered a piece of her heart with it. That sticker, from her mom, was important to her.

“Will you keep it?” she asked hopefully.

“Forever,” I told her, which is true. I placed it on a journal page where seven years later, it communicates love as clearly as it did on the day I received it.


It’s just ordinary lemonade. But Kay is making it for the first time, and her joyful face revels in a simple task successfully completed. What a wonder is a child’s first anything. My heart overflows with love from some hidden well inside.

Cell Phone

Everybody has a cell phone, but to little David who can’t talk yet, it’s magic. He’s discovering that pushing a button takes his picture. He smiles at himself and marvels at the miracle. And I rejoice as I watch him learn something new.

Trip to the Beach

A trip to the beach may be ho-hum for some people, but for me it’s a trip to meet God, who never fails to greet me through the ocean’s waves, the far horizon, and the people around me. It’s even more extraordinary with a granddaughter in tow. She sees treasures in rocks and shell fragments. She sets up a jewelry store in the sand, and I pretend to shop. No wonder I sit here in gratitude: I am so blessed in these ordinary times.

At Home

And yet I live a paradox. The pandemic is extraordinary, but days at home blur together in a mundane march of routine activities. I breathe in and out and slow my thoughts. A fierce wind blows through the window, and papers flutter off my desk. I light a candle in a protected holder and take a sip of water.

Four ordinary elements—breath, wind, light, and water—call God to mind. Jesus, who said he was living water, breathed on the Apostles. And a noise like a strong, driving wind blew on the day of Pentecost when tongues of fire topped each head.

Life is a puzzling set of contradictions. Take the everyday act of being grateful. A kind word is so small. But it changes the atmosphere between my husband and me, sheltering at home together. He frets over a problem at work during a break. We commiserate while sipping coffee, which he makes every day as an action of love. I don’t want to miss thanking him for this, even as I experience difficult emotions over things I’ve lost. He listens to my pain about missing the grandchildren, and he personifies God’s love to me.

And there’s nothing ordinary about that.

Image by Jill Wellington from Pixabay.

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Loretta Pehanich
Loretta Pehanich is a Catholic freelance writer and the author of 2022: A Book of Grace-Filled Days, Women in Conversation: Stand Up!, and Fleeting Moments: Praying When You Are Too Busy. A spiritual director since 2012, Loretta is trained in giving the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius. Her involvement in ministry and parish life includes 20 years in small faith-sharing groups and Christian Life Community. Loretta gives retreats and presentations on prayer and women’s spirituality and is commissioned as an extraordinary minister of the Eucharist. She and her husband Steve have four children and 10 grandchildren.


  1. Thanks, Loretta. I am about to spend a week in Tahoe with my children and 8 grandchildren. I will try to remember each day to treasure being with each of them and not let a day pass without seeing God’s love reflected in their laughter and beautiful smiles.

  2. Thanks Loretta. Indeed life is such a precious gift. A new day is a fresh opportunity to cherish the day and all that it brings along.

  3. I love your examples of finding God in simple things, every day. You inspire me to also look for Him in the same way.

  4. Just had a sleepover with 2 of our grandchildren- first one in over 3 months!
    The kindness of grandchildren in word or deed melts my heart without question.I am blast to have four of them x


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