HomedotMagisReflectionsAfter the Fever, Service

After the Fever, Service

Jesus and Simon's Mother-in-Law by Meister des Hitda-EvangeliarsThis post is based on Week Six of An Ignatian Prayer Adventure.

It’s the Sabbath. Jesus must surely have been looking forward to a peaceful Sabbath meal at Simon Peter’s house, after teaching in the synagogue, curing a demoniac, and enduring the commotion that ensued (Mark 1:21–28).

Instead, they told him about Simon’s mother-in-law, who “lay sick with a fever,” and he “came and took her by the hand and lifted her up. Then the fever left her, and she began to serve them” (1:29–30).

Who was this nameless woman, who is given only three sentences? She was certainly “old” by first-century standards, since she had a married daughter. Life expectancy was short, and the all-encompassing term “fever” often meant a life-threatening illness. Nevertheless, in the multi-generational households of the time, she would still have had major responsibilities, including hospitality to guests.

A few months ago, I had a fever caused by the flu. I could scarcely get out of bed, much less get up and dress and greet visitors, yet this is what Simon’s mother-in-law was expected to do. And Jesus wasn’t alone; he brought James and John and who knows how many others with him. How could she trust anyone else to be the hostess, even her daughters, her daughters-in-law, or any of the other women of the household? Yet she had no strength. How frustrated she must have felt! (I am with her for a long time in her weakness, pain, anxiety, and frustration.)

Then “they” (Who are they?) “told him about her.” How did she feel when Jesus—perhaps accompanied by “them”—came into her private space? Surprised? Embarrassed? Hopeful? “They told him about her.” What had anybody told her about him?

Then, suddenly, he cured her. I try to imagine the feeling when the illness left her at once. (It took me two weeks to get over my “fever.”) But her joy and gratitude were so full that she served them. Jesus had that effect on people.

As we pray “to know Jesus more intimately” this week, Simon’s mother-in-law may help us to understand not only what it is like to meet him, but how to respond. How am I called to serve Jesus, right now, this Lent, in this stage of my life?

Barbara Lee
Barbara Lee
Barbara Lee is a practicing spiritual director who lives in New York City. She is a retired attorney, a former U.S. magistrate judge, and a long-serving member of the Ignatian Volunteer Corps. She is the author of God Isn’t Finished with Me Yet: Discovering the Spiritual Graces of Later Life, Answering God's Call, and Praying Through Pain.


  1. I handled my midlife crisis by attending various schools [e.g. an M.Div. from Pittsburgh Theological Seminary & an M.A. from the Seminary of the Immaculate Conception on Long Island] and one professor asked me to write a paper on being a Christian lawyer. I decided very quickly that although one might be a Christian who practices law–just as a man might be a Christian who plays in the NFL–the the system is not run on Christian principles. Since you have a diverse background, I just wondered how you “rationalized” what you did with your life. I was more interested in jurisprudence than in the law. Pax tecum. P.S. Your POV in the article was good. It reminded me of “Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead.”

    • I would not use the word “rationalize.” I regarded my life as a lawyer and judge as my vocation and tried to live it faithfully. In retirement, I experienced a new call, and I am trying not to squander any of the graces that God continues to invite me to experience. I also try to remember that every “system” is made up of human beings, and we are all connected.

  2. Having been a victim of this year’s flu onslaught I appreciate your insights into the dynamic between Jesus and Peter’s mother-in-law. I especially related to the line, “her joy and gratitude were so full that she served them. Jesus had that effect on people.” Whenever I let myself be in the presence of Jesus, whether sick or well, content or troubled, he has that effect on me, too.

  3. Barbara, I have read this scripture a number of times, yet I have never seen it through her eyes. This also reminds me to be more passionate towards those that wish they could serve yet are unable. It also reminds me to evaluate now that I am healthy how am I serving others. Blessings to you and yours.


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